The Improper Adoptee has a niché for failing miserably at pretending to be other people and originality. She is also the biggest sore loser in a game that only she wanted to — and wants — to play. It's pathetic. Marilyn didn't have to go and create a blog of perverse and cruel content, but she did. Why? No one
knows but her. She did this after I posted my comment to her in which I'd asked her to please stop, to just end this blog war she wants to continue and that I don't want any part of. She is a sadist, a sexual deviant, a pervert, a child exploiting sicko and an anti-Semitic, volatile woman who is ready to
combust. Let's not forget that she loathes Christians while at it, specifically Catholics. Maybe she has such a deep hatred for me because I am not adopted, I am Jewish by Jewish law, I am Catholic by Christian law, I have a very close-knit family and we live next door to each other, I had a son at the age of 40, I went to college for 4 years and then continued for another 3 years, I am a self-taught computer geek and can do many things she can only wish she could, I have owned two cars that were my dream cars, and I own my own home. These are things that wouldn't bother me or other people, but probably annoy her to no end.
Why else make such a disgusting and perverted blog? Everything she's posted on it is against Blogger's TOS and Usage, and parts are actually against the law. Federal law.
Marilyn McAboy was asked to STOP HARASSING ME all this week. Instead, she's escalated with such intensity, she can't even think for herself. She's copied images and text from MySpace posts (from other users) and from my blog to post to her blog, her blog she claims is made by two men.
Riiiiight. We all buy that.
“The Improper Adoptee” is so mentally ill that she can't stop; she cannot control herself at all. Asking her to leave me alone, to back off, to just cut the crap doesn't even register in her mind. She doesn't even care. She loves every minute of abusing people. All of her blog entries are proof.
Her blog entry for Monday, March 9, 2009 is a total epic fail. Not only is it so childish, it's deranged, perverse and sick — as usual. She is well aware that what she has posted is illegal and also against Blogger's TOS, but she seems to not care. She surely doesn't care that she's infringed on copyrights. I've reported her to Yahoo, Inc.
and I'm reporting her to the DMCA. I've also reported her to the FBI.
Thats no joke either. Will she care? Does he care? I doubt it, because she already knows all of this information; she read it herself on
STOP Crulety Against Animals, the MySpace group I moderate.
This is my blog entry from December 2008.
Signs The Improper Adoptee is a Serial Bully
- is a convincing, practiced liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
- excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive
- relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon
- is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
- cannot be trusted or relied upon
- fails to fulfill commitments
- is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; while language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old (e.g. "meanydoodles")
- in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
- holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
- is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
- is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
- flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never had a proper conversation
- refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
- is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
- undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask
- gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
is highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
- poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
- often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behavior and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
- is spiritually dead although may loudly profess some religious belief or affiliation
- is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
- is insensitive, often callously indifferent to the needs of others, and especially when others are experiencing difficulty (vulnerability is a major stimulant to the serial bully)
- is unable to maintain confidentiality, often breaching it with misrepresentation, distortion and fabrication (e.g. "Okay........I’ll keep your emails private...........ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!")
- uses gossip, back-stabbing or spreads rumours to undermine, discredit and isolate
- is insecure and sees others as a threat; the threat seems to comprise a fear of exposure of inadequacy, and often borders on paranoia; the individual may have a paranoid personality
- is untrustworthy and unable to trust others - this partly explains the compulsion for excessive monitoring
- the serial bully seems to live in a bubble of the present and when challenged will spontaneously make things up; the bully genuinely seems to believe the fabrication; from a psychiatric viewpoint this could be called confabulation; from a moral viewpoint, it's called lying
- is devious and manipulative (especially female bullies)
- is often like a child who has never grown up
- often has a hatred of a sector of society, eg ethnic minorities, disabled people, etc
- often has a hatred of certain professional groups, eg psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, counsellors, therapists
Embittered by an abusive upbringing, seething with resentment, irritated by others' failure to fulfill his or her superior sense of entitlement, and fuelled by anger resulting from rejection, the serial bully displays an obsessive, compulsive and self-gratifying urge to displace their uncontrolled aggression onto others whilst exhibiting an apparent lack of insight into their behavior and its effect on people around them. Jealousy and envy motivate the bully to identify a competent and popular individual who is then controlled and subjugated through projection of the bully's own inadequacy and incompetence. When the target asserts their right not to be bullied, a paranoid fear of exposure compels the bully to perceive that person as a threat and hence neutralise and dispose of them as quickly as possible. Once a person has been eliminated there's an interval of between 2 days and 2 weeks before the bully chooses another target and the cycle starts again.
Marilyn McAboy's online harassment blog entry:
annie wilkes is spookie's idol
[PHOTO REMOVED]
spookie loves her ass! spookie wants to be just like this fuckin control freak! spookie's main goal in life is ownin everybody's ass. she wants absolute power. she's a fuckin
fruitcake. spookie is a fuckin spoiled brat 2 who thinks she can bully everybody in 2 gettin what she wants. she uses threats an badgering to accomplish this goal. fuck.she tells some peeps she'll call a social worker on em an lie an tell em they're abusin their kids if they don't side w/ her. spookie will do anythin to make people do what she wants. she don't care who she hurts. she likes to hurt nice people. it makes her cum in her pants. along with fuckin cats! hurtin innocents is her religion! she'll get violent with ya to, so watch out. she'd prob. kill anybody who gets in her way! fuckin sociopath. me an my buds wrote an outline about spookie's sick personality. read it an then print it out. refer to this list to protect urself from this schizophrenic cunt at all times.
signs spookie is a serial bully
1.is a convincing, practiced liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive (spookie is one of the the biggest bullshit artists in the world! she should have a big L sewn on all her clothes!)
2.relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon (look at how much spookie says the same shit over an over again! she fuckin goes all over the internet lyin about ia and her friends. this has been goin on for over a year! some dr. needs to give this bitch a surgical lobotomy!)
3.is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
4.cannot be trusted or relied upon
5.fails to fulfill commitments (cept for her dates with cats)
6.is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; while language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old (42 year olds shouldn't dye their hair purple. ya think?)
7.in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy (this is why the loser who got spookie knocked up won't marry her. he only sees his devil kid cause spookie's father will drag his ass through the courts. harry's dad hates spookie's guts.)
8.holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret (spookie called ia's friend amy a dyke. then she goes an says she supports gay rights an cuts down ia cause she doesn't an calls her a racist.)
9.is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability (this describes spookie to a tee. the creep.)
10.is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity (this is why spookie says ia is crazy an ain't psychic.)
11.flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never had a proper conversation
12.refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability (spookie is a big time hacker!)
13.undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask (this is what spookie did to all of ia's friends)
14.gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
is highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and emotions
15.poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
16.often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behavior and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
17.is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
is insensitive, often callously indifferent to the needs of others, and especially when others are experiencing difficulty (vulnerability is a major stimulant to the serial bully) (spookie makes fun of all the adoptees who have a lota pain)
18.is unable to maintain confidentiality, often breaching it with misrepresentation, distortion and fabrication (spookie put ia's cell phone number on her blog)
uses gossip, back-stabbing or spreads rumours to undermine, discredit and isolate (spookie says ia an her friends are pyschotic when everyone knows she 'sthe one crazy in the coconut!)
19.is insecure and sees others as a threat; the threat seems to comprise a fear of exposure of inadequacy, and often borders on paranoia; the individual may have a paranoid personality (spookie can't handle bein on ia's list cause she's paraniod she'll get committed again.)
20.is untrustworthy and unable to trust others - this partly explains the compulsion for excessive monitoring (spookie an that raine chick got in a fight when they were supposed to be allies. this happened cause spookie got paranoid and started slightin her. raine told spookie she thought she was tryin to pick a fight with her. spookie fights with everyone sooner or later.)
21.the serial bully seems to live in a bubble of the present and when challenged will spontaneously make things up; the bully genuinely seems to believe the fabrication; from a psychiatric viewpoint this could be called confabulation; from a moral viewpoint, it's called lying
22.is devious and manipulative (fuck yah!)
23.is often like a child who has never grown up (spookie still sticks out her tongue at people)
24.often has a hatred of a sector of society, eg ethnic minorities, disabled people, etc (spookie hates anyone on the right. spookie is a leftist vampire biatch.)
Posted spookieby is a demented cyberterroist bitchat 5:13 AM
As for "The Improper Adoptee" a.k.a. using the image from Misery, well, a MySpace user has been using it in reference to Marilyn for months.
Marilyn, if you want to find "mellowgreeneyes" original posting of that image, go to:
You're well aware that on that forum, there's a topic with a post from around September or October 2008 with the image you used, posted by *·.(¯`·.¸.·• mellowgreeneyes... ·.¸.·´¯).·* calling you a MEANYDOODLE! You know, and I know you know. Let's not dance around your bullshit.
OH, you know how THE IMPROPER BULLSHITTER always says I was forcing her to make two profiles?(Marilyn, you really need to stop this lying. See a therapist about compulsive lying, and all your other illnesses, please please pretty please? We'll even put a cherry on top, just for you.)
Posted: Sep 8, 2008 1:23 AM
[QUOTE]Mittens [the Cat] wrote:
Stepford Child wrote:
"Um, if you can’t afford a $15 vaccine get rid of your fucking cat and give it to someone who can take care of it properly and get it the medical care it needs. Christ.
People are such idiots.
You really hate yourself don’t you? Sad.... sad too, that you take it out on everyone Chainsaw......"
Here’s my Mittens the Cat account. You know, the supposed troll. The moderator of two of the largest
Pets and Animals groups on Myspace, but that’s called a troll to StepFord Child. (THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE, the same woman posting BESTIALITY on her
alt.
blogger site)
::
:sigh:::
Here’s the bulletin she sent out about me in screenshot form. Oh, and her messages, but this is only one of them
...why be redundant. There’s also her message to me before she turned on me, right below it.
Now, NO, I did NOT tell her she shouldn’t use her one profile. I suggested she think about making another profile, so she’d have one for adoptee rights and adoption issues, and one for animal rights and animal activism. This way when she posts in the volatile animal groups, people won’t attack her, and I told her that. I’ll post the messages between us.
PLEASE note that before she turned on me, she liked me.
My very first message to her is below, and her first reply is above it, below.
----------------- Original Message
-----------------
From:
Stepford Child
Date: Feb 16, 2008 10:40 AM
Well, I will be honest-I hadn’t read all the pages before I
replyed , there are just too many and I can’t concentrate that long, lol. I
have however, had it with Chainsaw-she is an
evil horrible girl who is constantly picking on everyone and not just in this group-I wish she would be banned from myspace, hell actually the whole internet, lol. It makes me mad that groups like yours are
started to help animals and all people do is sit there and nit pick about how people write and how they spell-I am sick of the soap opera and the fighting in part because the animal matters just get ignored. I didn’t read what Cody did or the other post you mentioned about the girl threatening suicide-so I guess I wasn’t aware of all going on, but I stuck up for Cody anyway because you know these troll losers they push people to act horrible and lose it-that is what they want and Chainsaw is one of them-I still am glad I stuck up for this kid because he did nothing wrong posting that thread and I hope he reads what I wrote because he deserves to have his morale upped-I don’t want him to stop being a good person and stop fighting for the animals and the bottom line is he did NOTHING to deserve those bitches from picking on him and I don’t want him to lose faith-I’m sick of seeing nice people get ripped apart on the interent-I realize I have a dual myspace and I have thought myself about using this one just for adoption stuff and making a separate animal one and am palnning on doing that-but at the same time I like educating people on the oppression and predjudice that adoption really is because like things concerning animals the wrong attitudes the Adoption field pushes needs to be changed. It is a
billon dollar industry that has destroyed
millons of people’s lives and people need to know the truth. Anyway, I am glad you are
deleteing people, I wish you would ban Chainsaw.....
she is a pain in the ass..... I’m glad you like the info I post and it is too bad this group has become a troll haven because I love that you
made it for the animals, you are a good person
too and you don’t deserve this crap in your group-take care and I won’t tell anyone about this
e-mail, Have a great day
Love
Step
----------------- Original Message
-----------------
From:
spookie
Date: Feb 16, 2008 10:22 AM
The "girl" who said she couldn’t afford to pay $15 for a vaccine was really a teenage boy who stole a girl’s profile, a troll. The profile was deleted the next day. The same "girl" also posted she was going to commit suicide because of myspace, and other nonsense comments, all obviously untrue due to their inconsistency.
BTW, I also stuck up for the child named Cody. Cody then lost his cool and posted his cousins phone number and begged members to call it. That was a bad idea.
No offense, but you have very good info to post in
SCAA and it gets ignored because the people only see your profile and ignore your wealth of info. Maybe you could create another profile and keep it private, using it to post in groups that are volatile?
~~~~~~~~~~~
Another unwarranted reply to a post I made that didn’t deserve this lashing out I received. This is all due to my asking her feelings about an adopted friend. A question, people! A question sent her after me like a crazed bull
(y). And again, these sites, the acronyms I don’t even know. What is the NCFA? What does BSE mean? I honestly have no idea. Anne didn’t tell me about these things. Her adoption didn’t work this way. When Anne decided to give her son for adoption, it was open, and none of this crazy stuff was involved. I helped her by being there for her, her friend, during her pregnancy. She
WANTED to do this, and no one talked her into it. I wanted her to keep the baby, and somehow work things out with her boyfriend, but Anne wasn’t ready to
settle down with him, and she wasn’t ready to settle down with anyone. I don’t think she was ready to be a mother. She felt that she was lucky, she had and has a terrific family, and she had a bad one that had given her life. She felt in her heart that her baby had a loving real mother and father, and would have a loving adoptive mother and father. That’s all I know about her and her baby.
StepFordChild wrote:
"Oh you skank loser spookie. You are a hacker, a liar and a 4 year old SPOILED BRAT. I never wrote what you made up and posted in here. YOU are the one who started this WHOLE thing because you made up a mean spirited story and tried to indicate to me that all birth mothers are CRACK WHORES, which is an immature, and horrific LIE, PLUS IT IS SLANDER!-GO READ THE BOOK, EVERYONE READ THE BOOK, WHICH IS THE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION AND HOW BABIES ARE TAKEN AGAINST A GOOD MOTHER’S WILL, MANIPULATED AWAY, AND SOLD BY ADOPTION AGENCIES AND THEN THEY LIE AND PUT AN INFERTILE WOMAN’S NAME ON OUR BIRTH CERTIFICATES SAYING SHE GAVE BIRTH TO US WHEN SHE DID NOT AND DO NOT GIVE US THE REAL BC WITH OUR MOMS NAMES ON THEM-BABIES IN AMERICA ARE SOLD FOR UP TO 100 GRAND EACH-THE BOOK IS CALLED "THE GIRLS THAT WENT AWAY"
GO READ IT-AMERICA HAS A LONG EVIL HISTORY OF ABUSE AND BIGOTRY-LOOK AT SLAVERY!
SOME GOOD WEBSITES THAT SPOOKIE DOESN’T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW ABOUT THAT TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION & OPEN ADOPTION TOO ARE:
abolishadoption.com
exiledmothers.com
keepyourbaby.com
These links will take you to other links-forget what you saw in JUNO, it is all a LIE-a group of selfish adoptive parents that oppress the slaves, I mean kids they adopt called the NCFA DO NOT want us to know our own people, or who we look like, OR OUR OWN PARENTS NAMES! or the fact that most babies are coerosed away from single mothers against their will by social workers, WHEN WE WANTED TO BE WITH THEM-THE NCFA ARE THE ONES THAT GET BS MOVIES LIKE JUNO MADE, TO BRAINSWASH GIRLS TO GIVE AWAY THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD TO INFERTILE STRANGERS WHO BUY THEM AND THEN CON THE POOR CHILD THAT THEY ARE THEIRS WHICH IS ABUSE WHILE NOT LETTING THE CHILD EVEN KNOW THEIR MOMS NAME.
Spookie is like those people-she is a people abuser and she hates me because I expose and hate the American adoption system because it abused me and countless others.
She hates me because she wrote me a very mean email MEANT TO HURT ME and then I did NOT reply and she handles it like a 4th grade BULLY-going all around into groups insulting me, calling me names-it is sad she says she is 42 and acts like the mean kids we all knew in juniour high school, but this is how Pro-Adoption people are-skank losers!!
And that is harrassing, intimidating, manipulating hacker, spammer, phisher
spookie, ika: mittens the cat IS
Stay way from her if you care about yourself.
She is beyond dangerous and needs SERIOUS MENTAL HEATH HELP.
Burn in hell spookie."
I told Stepford that Anne’s mother was on drugs, not crack, when Anne was a baby. When Anne found her mother later in life, she knew she was a crack addict. Other family members knew for a while.
This is FACT: Crack cocaine is a highly addictive and powerful stimulant that is derived from powdered cocaine using a simple conversion process. Crack emerged as a drug of abuse in the mid-1980s. It is abused because it produces an immediate high and because it is easy and inexpensive to produce--rendering it readily available and affordable.
Stepford told me I was a liar about crack, but I am in NY and in 15 minutes, I can be at one of the oldest
crackhouses from the early 80’s. I know crack was here.
"The crack epidemic refers to a six year period between 1984 and 1990 in the United States during which there was a huge surge in the use of crack cocaine in major cities, and crack-houses all over the USA. Fallout from the crack epidemic included a huge surge in addiction, homelessness, murder, theft, robbery, and long-term imprisonment. The first effects of the epidemic started in the early 1980s, but the DEA officially classifies the time of the epidemic starting in 1984 and ending in 1990, in what can be considered to be the height of the epidemic.
The epidemic affected all major American cities. Among the cities most severely impacted were Chicago,
Washington D.C., Los Angeles, Baltimore, Detroit, New York, and Miami. According to New York Senator Charles Schumer, "Twenty years ago, crack was headed east across the United States like a Mack truck out of control, and it slammed New York hard because we just didn’t see the warning signs.""
Anne’s Mother:
"In the 1970s and 80’s, the drug became particularly popular in the disco culture as cocaine usage was very common and popular in many discos such as Studio 54." So, while I said to Stepford that her mother already had addiction problems, which included alcohol and other substances (of which cocaine became one), she didn’t know what else her mother used before cocaine hit NY.
I’ll finish this tomorrow, after culling my emails.
BTW, remember! Improper Adoptee
said—
Stay way from her if you care about yourself.
She is beyond dangerous and needs SERIOUS MENTAL HEATH HELP.
Burn in hell spookie.
That’s serious stuff! Hide! Quick!
I hope I find my DIE BITCH!
post she made to me
.[/QUOTE]
Improper Adoptee,
I hope you have room to store all of that FAIL.
Of course it's not The Improper Adoptee making that bestiality site. IA and "those two dudes" both just happen to not blog on weekends. Coincidence? Ha ha! Gee, Do the two guys and Marilyn all have to check in to the local metal facility on weekends, as required by a court order? (I mean Marilyn and her two male personalities, eh-hem) Let's not play stupid here. No one is that dumb to think that she isn't behind both blogs.
Marilyn McAboy, otherwise known as “The Improper Adoptee” is a sexual deviant who is licking her lips perversely as she writes about bestiality, laughing hysterical as she exploits a little boy who is only 26 months old (yes, that's right, she's taking part in child exploitation by posting blogs about a toddler that is not hers), and feeling pleasure in every way possible as she mocks and puts down my father, a man dying from lung cancer that has spread to the brain, a terrific Dad who not only worked hard to put all of us through college, he always spent all his free time with all his children — at the park, the beach, the pool and the yard, teaching us to ride bikes, to skate, to body surf waves, to climb trees… and this is what Marilyn McAboy chooses to make fun of. CANCER. “The Improper Adoptee” is one thing in a nutshell — HATRED. Forget about the libel and all the defamatory shit she posts about me all the time, rambling like a moron, on and on. The worst has been her mocking of cancer patients and exploiting toddlers. She's a sick, perverse, delirious entity, and karma is going to bite her head off and spit it down her neck.
Mar 26, 2009 3:15 pm US/Eastern
