About My Blog.

Welcome! This is "Catatonic Digressions."
Most readers don't understand my blog's title. It's an old inside joke from a forum long gone. I was going to change it, but since it's been "confusing" for so long, I decided to leave it. Don't worry about what it means, the content of the blog is what matters...or not

Unfortunately, my blog isn't what I set out for it to be. A sick woman in Orleans, MA began stalking me in 2007 on Myspace. Since that time, this woman obsessed over me to the point of having the police come to her home and threaten to confiscate her laptop. She is a racist and anti-Semite.I could no longer blog freely, knowing this nutbag was just going to take the photos I'd post and put them on a child exploitation website.

This site is only up for the information it has that others might need to know about. That information is about "Seal Shepherd" aka Michael McDade, Kat McAboy aka Marilyn McAboy and Veronika Hompo, a self-proclaimed Nazi.

I'm a real person. I'm real and I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. After years of putting up with online abuse by manipulative, pathological liars, attention whores or narcissists, I've had it. Don't bother me with pathetic drama. I have no time for these types of people and their need to absorb others' time and attention.

This blog is no longer used. I've retired it for the most part unless something very important comes up.

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Thursday, January 29, 2009

Harry's Birthday, Christmas and Chanukkah

"Woo hoo, I am TWO!"

I usually color-correct my photos, but I decided to leave these as-is, and just show them as we took them. My son was born during the holidays, so he gets overly spoiled by me and his grandparents (my parents), but some relatives seem to think his birthday coming at the same time as major holidays means you can send one gift and "forget" the other. When he gets older, he'll be aware of this, and children get upset when they are aware that their birthday is being lumped together with the biggest holiday of the season. I hope those who lump it together now won't when he is older. It might not be about the gifts, but to a little boy, the gifts, no matter how small, mean a lot.

Is that not a smile to die for? This was just because he was happy to be with his family, playing and having fun. He's a super child, and I am biased. ; )

"Enough of this picture taking. Give me that camera!"
Harry LOVES cameras, especially digital cameras. In fact, he likes all technology. Hide your cameras, cell phones and PDA's when around him, or he'll demand to have a look-see and try them out ; )

PLEASE NOTE: I'd post more, and say more, but I can't. My blogging must be edited and censored because I'm the victim of a cyberbully: an anti-semitic and cruel stalker online. Pictures that contain myself, my father or other family members might be used without my permission (she has done it before and still takes copyrighted images from me) for her own personal pleasure — glee and joy — by using them to mock my family and make fun of cancer and other hardships we might have. The Improper Adoptee is a very cruel and hateful person, and because of her, I feel extremely violated; she steals my images, she makes fun of my father's terminal illness and she tries to use anything she can to get strangers and acquaintances to turn against me and attack me. This blog shows Christmas AND Hanukkah, and The Improper Adoptee has said many anti-semitic comments towards me and others, and she has said boatloads of anti-Christian comments as well, especially anti-Catholic, which is how I was raised. Both religions make her blood boil, so I am a victim of religious persecution by her and a victim of her libel and sick obsession to "prove I'm evil," along with her made-up fantasy about my non-existent connection to adoption. She is also angry because I am not anti-adoption, nor pro-adoption. Because of this sick woman, I have to censor my blog, and I am against censorship. Libel and defamatory, derogatory blogs are another story, but a personal blog should not have to be censored because a lunatic is watching you.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

When the Cyberbully Cries Wolf to the Masses, You Get Victimized Over and Over…

The Improper Adoptee has been posting such cruel and mean blog entries about me since May of 2008, but before she joined Blogger, she was posting her cruelty and lies on MySpace. She was a member of my group, STOP Cruelty Against Animals, and not many members were a fan of hers — in fact, none were. I was the only one who had cruel topics about her deleted, and I was the only one who has ever publicly stood up for her, even though her rants were always filled with off-topic endings about her 110% anti-adoption stance.

She back-stabbed me because I am not anti-adoption. She decided I was "pro-adoption," and labeled me a "troll;" from then on, I was the target of libel and harassment. Why was I back-stabbed? I've explained it on my other blog — which documents her abuse while at the same time asks her to Cease and Desist — and I've explained it many times, but people still sometimes miss the full picture, so I have to make everything very clear. I have an adopted friend, and if she had not been taken in by foster care and then adopted, she would probably not be alive today. I know another young woman who said she is positive she would not be alive if she was not adopted. But my message to The Improper Adoptee was about my friend, and I asked her what she thought, being that she was so anti-adoption. I said to her that I knew it was a touchy subject, and I meant no harm, but I wanted to know what people who are against adoption felt a person should do in a situation as serious as my friends was, or rather, her mothers. No other family member wanted to take my friend and care for her, raise her, and my friend's mother was a user and abuser of drugs, plus a drinker. Addiction came first. When I didn't get a reply, and posted to IA, then called StepfordChild, in one of her groups, she lashed out, saying my message was meant to hurt her, to cause her to cry, feel pain, to relive the abuse of her childhood. She then said I was a mean-spirited troll, a hacker, and a pro-adoption abuser, and probably "an abuser of animals not just people." Then was the claim that "many people hate spookie…"

For months, she posted public abuse, towards me and towards others, but the others were adopted people or people who adopted children. I was the only person not involved in the adoption world — not the adoption of humans, that is.
I asked her, many times, to please stop. I have posted it in my other blog, and I can link to the posts that still remain on MySpace. Her replies were always maniacal, or she laughed as if she not only didn't care, but felt she had every right to hurt us, be as mean as possible and try to touch the nerves that would cause the most pain, and she did with many of the adopted group members.

She also posted as anonymous when posting the cruelest. She now does this with Blogger when posting comments. She will post to her own blog, seemingly talking to herself, as anonymous, and she'll post to other blogs as anonymous, to post about me, even on blogs where I am not even mentioned at all. I've found her posting "warnings" to total strangers, telling them to call the police if I post to their blogs at all. Does this mean if I comment on someone's lovely flower bed, they should call the cops? According to The Improper Adoptee; YES.

She has called business owners I do work with. She has now posted that she is going to not only call the ad agency again, but their clients. She wants to ruin the ad agencies business for not "firing" me? She has also listed not only the business owner's name, but other people who work there. I had not mentioned this woman's name once, not at all, and I always blacked it out, until she went and posted all of this information over and over, blatantly abusing my privacy and the privacy of the people who work for a company I do some work for. She posted all this information after I asked her, in a very neutral, calm comment, to please remove my copyrighted images and to not steal any more off my sites. The next day, she posted another stolen image, and posted all the full names, phone numbers and contacts for an ad agency I have worked for, and posted the name of an employee or two, to harass them as well. What is expected to come of that?

Since 2007, I've been bullied, stalked and harassed by this woman. She laughed when I found her blog in August, and begged her to please remove the libel and my picture, because my father had been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, and I didn't have time or energy for her sick game, so similar to the one I thought had ended with her removal from Myspace. She snickered, and she posted that she "laughed for 30 minutes straight." She then mocked my father's cancer. I later found out that she had tormented a group member on MySpace, whose mother had breast cancer. She did so because the girl took part in a fundraiser for breast cancer, and The Improper Adoptee was against the organization that organized the fundraiser. The Improper Adoptee also told another user on MySpace that she hoped her son would die in Iraq, and then she called him a "baby killer." This was odd, because one of The Improper Adoptee's blogger friends served in the Gulf War, and she doesn't call her a baby killer and she supports her fully.

What I'm trying to say here is that people need to see the full picture. I'm going to make sure everyone understands and that there is no bias.

This woman called my toddler a bastard child, and posted to the world that I stole him from an unwilling poor mother. I had him myself! Why can't I have had a baby?!? Add to that, I have never had anything to do with adoption, and she constantly posts that I'm pro-adoption or work in the adoption industry. I'm not and I don't. I'm so tired of the little lies to the cruel and hurtful libel.

I have wanted to have this blog be open, fun, serious and even personal. I can't. I don't want to have to hide because I have someone stalking me from a few states away. I don't want to have to keep checking Google for libel about me on sites I'd never expect to find it. I've been using the internet since 1992, and actively in forums since 1993. Why should I have to hide 16 years later? I've never had to hide and be secretive. I've always been open. I've even had to delete an entire website she'd not yet found, just to maintain my privacy.

Why do some people find this behavior acceptable? Why do people just ignore the abuse I've endured, and that others have, and pat this woman on the back and stand up for her…why am I NOT allowed to stand up for myself?

Insanities on the Internets!: The Improper Adoptee, Also Known As The Improper Anti-Semite

The latest hate towards me? Anti-Semitism. She anonymously posted to her friend's blog, saying I molest 10 year boys. DISGUSTING. Before, the comments were crude because of my Catholic upbringing. What's next? Green eyes mean you do something horrible or have a negative trait? This is ludicrous and to think, to know that people agree with her thinking, is so sickening to the stomach.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

The Improper Adoptee is a Cyberbully, Stalker and Lawbreaking Blogger — BEWARE, You Who Think You Are Her "Friends."

My next blog entry is going to really tick Marilyn McAboy—The Improper Adoptee—off, but everything in this world as we know it does, so there's no point in ever trying to make her see the truth, or make her understand right from wrong, or to straighten out a misunderstanding; which is what I did so long ago, and why she's been harassing and abusing me ever since. I asked her about my adopted friend. She flipped her wig.

Those of you, the naivé, or the ones who just take her side because you're adopted as well: watch your back. Don't think for a second that this woman won't flip on a dime. She wrote to me once about how she was so happy about what I was doing for animals, and for the animal group(s) on Myspace, and signed it "Love, Step." She vehemently denies this, even though she herself posted her own message containing the very sentence it's in. She liked me…until I had a friend who didn't hate being adopted. Wait until you time comes and she comes after you and refuses to stop. Wait until IT'S YOUR TURN for hatred and cruelty. Wait until you crack those eggshells you tip-toe on while chatting with her, and you'll see what happens. Forget about the DMCA (Digital Millennium Copyright Act). Watch as she steals, blatantly, your images from your site(s) and posts them on her blog, ignoring your copyright notices. Watch as she laughs publicly about your requests to her asking her to cease and desist. Just YOU wait until IT IS YOUR TURN. That goes for A., who blinding stood up for The Improper Schizopath and not only took her side blind as a bat in daylight, but blogged about me while not knowing anything at all. (A. no longer agrees with The Improper Adoptee and in fact has requested that IA/Kat McAboy remove all inflammatory content from her blog site. A.'s reaching out and requests have been ignored by Ms. McAboy just as I have.) That goes for Gershom*, who refused to even see two sides, and when she probably did, she didn't do anything about the fact that her friend was lying over and over again about supposed "hundreds of emails" or messages, and threats—claimed by The Improper Adoptee, Marilyn McAboy of Orleans, Massachusetts (formerly CT and FL) to be from me to Gershom when Gershom knew in her heart that these accusations were not at all true. This is to Teresa, "Ungrateful Little Bastard," who was just a nasty little bitch instead of being a decent human being, a person, and decided to act like a high school twat instead of having a rational, adult discussion after I sent her a very polite message. No, she had to be a nasty, mean bitch…because why? She's adopted? This is ludicrous. And lastly, this is for Joy, who is "the tough one" and thinks that because "nothing can rattle her cage," I should put up with The Improper Adoptee's abuse and just sit back and allow this insane, disturbed psycho to exacerbate her cruelty and hatred online towards me and others, and to start harassing my friend and his business and his employees?!? No, people. It does not work that way.

The Improper Adoptee has broken laws–real, legitimate laws. Not babbling threats like she rants towards me, but legitimate laws. One is obvious—Copyright Infringement. If you look at my blog, and you look at my MySpace profile, there are Copyright Notices. That's a civil suit right there.

Copyright Notice from MySpace Click the link for the full view.

They are binding and that means that she illegally uses my images. The bulk of the blogging is called "Aggravated Assault" in New York according to the District Attorney's office. As for the other broken laws, I'll let it come as a surprise to Marilyn. You'll be surprised, too.

Remember, keep a set of eyes behind your head. The Improper Adoptee can turn as you as quickly as she turned on Marley Griener. As fast as she turned on me. Who she chooses to stalk and abuse is probably chosen with a simple game like Russian Roulette.

Who will be the next victim?


*To The Improper Adoptee: You can stop mentioning Gershom already. Our last correspondence was 08/20/08, and was not hostile or harassment. Gershom can verify this.

A. would like you to stop mentioning her and to remove all the libel and derogatory content. You are well aware of what you're doing and whom you're harming with your vitriol.

Friday, January 23, 2009

It's Time for Change…for My Hair ; )

I'm bored out of my skull with my hair. Not only that, I seem to have lost some hair due to stress. This hair loss began when my father was in ICU due the pulmonary embolism and pneumonia, then it subsided. It started up again when the oncologist said the cancer spread to his hip and liver, and my Dad began chemo and radiation again, heavily. My father and I both have blonde hair, and I inherited his thin, baby-like hair, so mine easily breaks and stress makes my hair just seem to thin. It'll come back, but for now, I think it's time for a change. I can't have the long locks I'm used to. I think I'll do something radical. Something more colorful as well.

I use vegetable hair dye. So many colors. So little time! I'm also not sure if I should even keep any blonde showing at all. It'd be the first time ever. I don't know if I can do it. I was thinking of black, purple and hot pink or vampire red. If I have bangs, they would be black. I might have to get bangs, depending on the strength of my hair and the ends. If not, then I have more flexibility in the front. I'm also stumped about the front and back. I know the back has to be short, but possibly the front can be kept long with a modified A-line. 

I'm so confused and overwhelmed, just by a silly hair dilemma.  

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Some Photos of...Me. (and an Updated Blog From The Improper NutJob Herself)

Some Photos of...Me. (and an Updated Blog From The Improper NutJob Herself)

Catatonic Digressions: Some Photos of...Me.

I'm sorry, Marilyn. you said you were having a "medical procedure" and wouldn't be near a computer today. I think I read another lie! I call bullshit! Anyway, a while ago I posted this to you. Enjoy. It's clearly obvious you missed it.

That is the nutter's latest blog entry. Desperation, anyone? Jesus, what a sick and pathetic woman. I'm sure someone called her.
"Marilyn? Hi, this is Marilyn. I found some typos on your blog…"

Myself and others find it hilarious when an anonymous, well, a woman who hides herself and used to be anonymous — who posts as anonymous — has never once shown her face, yet rips apart others' appearances on a regular basis.

Improper Adoptee, I recall you regularly making childish and cruel coments about other people's looks or weight on MySpace, and then we all got a laugh out of you, then 48, making those immature comments about Marley Griener and me, and how supposedly ugly we were. You remember, don't you? I think you said something like "…nobody would fuck those ugly bitches…" Yes, it was along those lines.

Are you happy about all of this?
Is this what you wanted, Marilyn?

Does your daughter approve of your sick actions?
Is she proud of her mother?

Onto the blog entry you should not miss, and will enjoy so much. I posted it on Oct. 31st. How could you miss it?
Oh, you were out on your broom, terrorizing your neighbors, no doubt!

One of my friends, Marilyn, was sharing some pictures of me and I noticed they were so
low-res they looked awful, so I wanted to post the photos in a more viewable size so they don't look so odd.

I've seen my pics stolen by people on the net, and then distorted so I look "scary" according to some of these people.

Marilyn is a kind soul, really shy and honest, but cannot access MySpace, so...here I am. Both the first are before I had my son. In the first one, I'm holding my dear cat Buster, who I was lucky to have in my life for 15 years. As you can see in the picture, he was almost blind by the time the photo was taken. He was a very special family member. I rescued him from the streets, and he became the socializer of the household. Boy, did he snore!

Here I am with spookie. She's a very shy cat, and
she was not too happy when one by one, I brought home new kitties to the house. She's a little princess, and a little nervous. She now lives with three others, and she'd be really glad if they all just went away one day and never returned. Sorry, spooks, but they are family now. ;)

Now here's one that someone stole without permission, copyright infringement (a shame people can't obey laws), and then said I was a "vampire," but not just a regular vampire, a "psychic vampire!" I got a good LOL out of that.

The original picture is the first one. As anyone can see, I was driving my car. Actually, I was being pursued by two much younger guys (they were idiots with sideways caps on...I hate that wanna-be look) who wanted to drag race on a very dangerously curvy parkway, and they were not going to just let me drive. They had even made very brief eye contact with me at clog-up near the Meadowbrook. I have a 30th anniversay Camaro, so all young guys think it means "RACE!" (Okay, even old men do this. Let's not be silly.) One was on my left, the other, my right. I was staring straight ahead, watching the highway like any good driver would. Luckily, they both got totally busted after a "logjam" at a construction area. Yes, I did speed for a bit, but not much. Anyway... I'd just gotten out from a Motley Crue concert. Yes, I went this year. I'd not gone out the year my son was born, and I wanted to finally get out this summer. I'd also lost all the weight I'd gained from having a baby, and, I looked practically the same age as when I had him! I had to hit a show. I couldn't pass up seeing Tommy Lee, no matter what the media says about him. He is hot, and I'd not seen him live in many years. Oh, and he's even hot in that PETA ad. :P I was sweaty, it was July, and it was a breezy night on the water of Jones Beach. If this picture means I'm a psychic vampire, I want to know what others could mean!

I'm pretty damn proud of my skin, since I had such bad skin in early high school, and later on went on Accutane. Being made fun of for things you can't help is no fun, as we all know. I also thank my parents for inheriting the "OMG you are NOT how old you claim to be!!!" genes. I've never had any work done. My sister can still pull off early 20's, as in 21, some days.

That image above, with the black border, cropped from the original, is the one that was stolen off my profile and used without permission. It's the "Vampire" photo. :D If you click on it, it's a pretty large image, and you can clearly see, I'm very focused on driving, not on being a psychic vampire, but, if that person wants to believe I'm up to some psychic vampiric activity, then very well!

When I have some time, I'll put up a few more. The older ones might be fun. :)


Remember, Marilyn/The Improper Adoptee, NO STEALING!!!

The Images Are Copyrighted and YOU CANNOT USE THEM

The Improper Adoptee

(aaaagh, it's "to," not "too!!!") She's so Christian herself, you know. She's told me to find Jesus a few times. (holds in laugh) I guess that's her way of making fun of my upbringing in the CATHOLIC church, the one she loathes the most. Ha.

21, yes, that's TWENTY-ONE blog entries of libel about ME on a blog supposedly about adoptees that "think outside the box they want us to live in..." OH, those "they's." So X-Files like. Watch out!

She must've been on the stem today. Read her blog entry and get a load of the last sentence. I think I almost spit my drink while reading it.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

%&*%@#!!!! Typo's!!!!!

No, the below blog is NOT a joke, and yes the Rabbi's listed are true criminals, despite the *typo that may of indicated otherwise:

"Case of Rabbi Jerrold Martin Levy (Convicted of two counts of soliciting sex through the Internet and two counts of child pornography. He was sentenced to six years *and sex in prison. He was caught in the “Candyman” year-long sting operation by the US government.)"

Nope, it shouldn't of read "and sex in prison", LoL, that was a mistake, it should of only read "sentenced to six years in prison", and I have fixed it. Thank you to you know who for calling me and telling me about that......:)
I didn't want to sign into my blog today but I appreciate the tip. Now if only spookie could fix her ugly face that reflects her I want too and I think I have a right to be mean to everyone ugly soul........:)

Eh, I can dream can't I?....................... :)
Okay, Marilyn. They don't give you those hardcore meds BEFORE the alleged procedure, so you have a stash. Woo hoo! You're high as a kite.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Yes We Did!

Countdown with Keith Olbermann

Chinese media censor Obama's inaugural speech
Los Angeles Times, CA

Barack Obama's inauguration draws 37.8M, second only to Reagan's
Barack Obama's inauguration was the second most-watched in history, with an average of 37.8 million total viewers tuning in Tuesday.
Click link for more.
Los Angeles Times, CA

Obama inauguration a recruiting tool for hate groups
Many racist Web sites had clocks apocalyptically counting down to Obama's inauguration. One had a picture of a tombstone that read: "United States of America; Born: July 4, 1776; Died: Nov. 4, 2008; Suicide." Several sites encouraged members to wear black armbands on Inauguration Day.
Click link for more.
Chicago Tribune, IL

Americans gather to cheer Obama _ together
The Associated Press

Insanities on the Internets!: Marilyn McAboy — The Improper Adoptee. I Asked Her to STOP and She Violated Me Again.

Insanities on the Internets!: Marilyn McAboy — The Improper Adoptee. I Asked Her to STOP and She Violated Me Again.

Insanities on the Internets!: I Told The Improper Adoptee it Was Time to Stop Harassing Me…

Insanities on the Internets!: I told The Improper Adoptee it Was Time to Stop Harassing Me…

I'm all for Freedom of Speech, but when a cyberstalker — a cyberbully — is so out of control that you cannot blog freely and just keep a normal blog about random things; about life, about your family, about something that interested you one day — thoughts or articles you want to share — you need to fight back, and you need to stop the cyberbully.

Asking nicely didn't work. Asking and explaining why it should stop only made it escalate. Spreading lies, posting libel and defamatory blog entries full of the utmost hatred is her game, and she refuses to end this sick game, no matter how she's asked, told or begged. Even keeping a blog to document the abuse, with proof, does nothing to lessen the online bully called The Improper Adoptee.

It's time Bloggers fight back against people like this woman who thinks she can run people over and do what she wants and not pay consequences. I for one am not taking the abuse any longer. Bloggers, users of social sites and people on forums should not have to worry about what they post when their posts aren't hurtful or cruel.

We're told to ignore them, but I did, for months. I had no idea she was blogging about me for many months. When I found out, I asked her in a neutral written comment to please remove the libel and images stolen from my site. She laughed and posted more.

I'm stopping this woman, and I don't care how the authorities decide to punish her. Since 2007, she's harassed and abused me online. STOP means nothing to her. It's time she learned what the word means.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

My Online Stalker/Cyberbully Has Escalated Her Hostilities and Libel.

The Improper Adoptee.

She already religiously read my blog that documents her sick and cruel libel about me. She's now lurking my personal blog, and still lurks my MySpace profiles and wishes, oh so badly, she could see my other sites I'm on.

Tsk, tsk, too bad. The more I know about her, the more wacko she gets. She has to be stopped before she does something rash, something harmful, something dangerous.

Insanities on the Internets!: KB, you say? So, WHO'S the Con Artist?

Insanities on the Internets!: The Improper Adoptee Can't Understand CEASE and DESIST? More Insane Harassment Posted by IA.

You use YOUR OWN DAUGHTER. That's SICK. Once I posted proof that "OH, CANADA!" was logging on to my blog all the time, over 40+ times and hosting your images of me and other images on your blog, "Canada" stopped using her regular IP to log on and started using another. NOT coincidental. I'm sorry, but no one is that naivé.

As for your abuse towards me, I've asked you since 2007 and I repeat it again:

To The Improper Adoptee:
Click the link below in purple for information on

I did a search, (when I posted the blog entry "KB, you say? So, WHO'S the Con Artist?") and found out a Kristina B. is connected to "The Improper Adoptee." I'll not post The Improper Adoptee's real name, because she will surely burst a blood vessel. But the coincidence was listed as odd, and IA never commented on it — until tonight.

Why is Kristina's blog listed as "The Improper Adoptee?"
Why is Kristina's location the same location as all the IP entries that have posted on the same exact time and date as The Improper Adoptee on my comments?
Why, after all this time has passed, has The Improper Adoptee just threatened me to never mention a person named Kristina?
Why did this young woman move so very far away from IA at such a young age? If she is her daughter, did the father get full custody? That would not be surprise. Seeing the unstable mental state of SFC, The Improper Adoptee, I can see the state handing over a child to any father and not this woman who is obviously out of her mind.

It's time for her to stop harassing me. Enough is enough. No one is aware of the requests to remove the libel that go back over a year. No one is aware of the calm and polite messages just asking her to please cut it out. No one knows how many times I asked this woman to stop bothering me. And lastly, no one knows how many times she was sent CEASE and DESIST letters and chose to ignore them.

YOU can Google yourself.

KB, you say? So, WHO'S the Con Artist?

(Original blog entry below)
The original comment by this compassionate woman is posted on my personal blog, in response to my cat's FIV+ status and hospitalization.

The Improper Adoptee said...

Oh wow-what a mooching loser you are trying to get money from people on line. You are such a con artist on so many levels it isn't even funny. I bet your cat isn't even sick. You are just another online cyber theif like DL or KB or don't want to pay your own bills and wants everyone on line to do it for you. You will pay for the abuse towards me this blog too. And btw, EVERYONE is on to you spookie. You have no idea how much legal action is going to be taken against you and by how many people.

December 4, 2008 4:36:00 PM EST

You might want to explain this. Why is KB the same exact age as your supposed daughter?

Those images are on your blog. Why is KB hosting them?

Oh, there's more. A lot more. You might want to explain this. Maybe it's all a big mistake, just purely coincidental, you know. I don't post libel, like you do, or cruel hate-filled lies and hurtful toilet rot. That's your forté. Feel free to fill in the blanks here. I have no qualms with you explaining this "oddity." It's also odd that you listed yourself as an accountant on MySpace, (and someplace else, but that's not important right now) and she, too, is an accountant. Isn't that amazing.

And now for the update.

You're threatening me after I asked you dozens of times to stop posting libel about me? You're threatening me after I asked you to remove my photo, and then you not only did NOT comply, you stole and posted another? You have some nerve. To top that off, you posted to my blog dozens of times! What are you smoking? It's apparent you don't take psychiatric medications which you so desperately need, but you are taking something, and it's not helping you one bit. You're a paranoid, delusional abusive being. You want to have your cake and eat it, too? Who do you think you are?

By the way, liar, your "disposable cell phone" is from Sprint Spectrum L.P., Harwich, MA.
Making up a different company was lame. You called, and Called I.D. doesn't lie. Neither did looking up the phone number you called from. It was very much Sprint Spectrum L.P. out of Harwich, Massachusetts. Keep trying to tell me that you do not live in MA. All bullshit points to MA. Isn't that funny? Even your bazillion AOL logins to my blog were from Chatham, MA!

Blah, blah, blah. First of all, slander is spoken word, you total idiot. Secondly, you called my son, a two year old, a bastard, months ago, so I think your demands are a bit silly. My son was around 1 and 1/2 years old and you were calling him a stolen bastard child.

As if you're not having your daughter and other people send you my blog entries. As if you don't read my other posts on other sites. you know too much information, and you post about it — you lurk me and then want to cry wolf? Get off your high horse.

Your demands fall on deaf ears, and I'll tell you why. I've asked you for over a year to remove your libel and hate, and all you've done is laugh. When you started your blogging about me, I didn't even know about it. When I found out and asked you to please stop, you said you laughed for 30 minutes.

I had no idea that your daughter, of all people, was involved in your despicable dirty work. To know that you actually use her to help you spread hatred is so hideous and vile, it makes my stomach turn. I only found out because of Google. I was only suspicious. YOU confirmed it. Yes, you posted the affirmation yourself. Anything I've ever found is on Google. Your crazy ideas about hacking are simply that — CRAZY. I used to pity you; I used to actually feel sorry for someone who might actually be nuts and think people are hacking her, but no, no more. I think you play this part like an actress, just like you say about so many other people, to try to call attention to yourself. You know no one has ever hacked you. If it actually ever happened, something would've been done a long time ago. you're an attention whore. You're the stereotypical drama queen. Worst of all, you are the dictionary definition of a bully.

Yikes. You'll go to any lengths to try to convince people that you're some poor victimized woman, the lady who did nothing and never said or wrote one bad word towards another. Can't you see that it's over? Your lies were exposed. You were never hacked. You bullied not only me, but a few dozen others, and the saddest part about those others is that they are adoptees — they very people you claim you stand up for. You've abused and harassed adopted adults and teenagers for as long as you've been on forums and social sites. You can deny it all you like, but those people will stand up for themselves one by one, and each has their own story of how you hurt them.

After everything you've done to me — from laughing at my father's cancer to refusing to stop harassing me with your libel and posting to other people's blogs your defamatory comments — you have some nerve telling me what to do. I asked you in an amicable manner so many times to remove your blogs about me, and the image you stole without permission. You think that now you have a right to tell me what to do? Are you that insane? You, the hateful and cruel woman who has no regard for others wants me to obey her? Oh, please.

Can you comprehend?

BUSTED. You = Busted.
I bet you're not having a procedure, a surgical anything. I bet your neighbors finally got fed up, and you're going to the local jail to do some time for harassment. Yes, I am serious. you've admitted to harassing your neighbors, so a medical excuse fits so perfectly for you.

Raise your hand if you think The Improper Adoptee is doing jail time!
*dozens of hands fly into the air*

Don't bother trying to lie about it. Every time you make a new blog entry, it gets entered onto the site from which this information is taken from.

Now leave me alone.

To The Improper Adoptee:

Insanities on the Internets!: Blog Entry from December 19th Gets Revisited with a Huge Update and Not so Surprising Surprise: KB, you say? So, WHO'S the Con Artist?


The Improper Adoptee — Absolute Nutter

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this title that The Improper Adoptee used. I crack up!!! It's hilarious! Only a bonafide lunatic would say such a ludicrous thing. I'll LOL every time I see it.
It's coming right up...

Showing posts with label spookie/Mittens the Cat/Jaymie/Catty For A Cause/Saviourrnr/and many other names she uses on myspace and in comments. Show all posts

Showing posts with label spookie/Mittens the Cat/Jaymie/Catty For A Cause/Saviourrnr/and many other names she uses on myspace and in comments. Show all posts

Saturday, January 17, 2009



Thursday, December 11, 2008

Is spookie On Drugs?

The amount of energy and hatred this person (?) (or demon is more like it) has is ABSOLUTELY not normal and that was mentioned to me in a comment last week and I had been thinking that myself. spookie sure seems like she is on something. Maybe she is a pot head, or she shoots up. Maybe she uses coke. Who knows. She certainly is irrational enough to be on some sort of mind altering substance and that is apparent in everything she writes and in how much she lies. People who are stoned all the time, do not have a conscience, but I doubt if spookie ever had one anyway. She continues to bash Kite Kamp Girl and other innocent people and twist the truth compulsively, writing massive amounts of MANURE everyday with her trash mouth, instead of spending that time with her son. I think it is sad he has a mother who would rather stay online all day engaged in an enraged state of mind, then read him books, play with him or take him to places created for children to grow and develop like museums and parks. And who is spookie anyway? I have a court date set to talk with people who can help me end her tyrannical cyber abuse, so I will find out soon. But it's funny, because when I called the number to the Johnny Agency
last week to complain about her, that she has listed on her my space "spookiecats" as one of the companies she works for and I left a message after I was directed by one man to another man named John Fletcher, spookie got that message right away. She flaunted that fact too on her blog. I had mentioned on his voice mail that someone named spookie was harassing and terrorizing myself and others on the internet from Valley Stream New York and I gave the IP number. Then someone here in Bloggerland told me that there is a woman named Kim Hartwell who is an employee of the Johnny Agency and is from Valley Stream New York. The person who told me this, found her name and that she stated she lives in Valley Stream on a public site on the internet. And this is constantly on my stat counter, day after day:

6th December 2008 10:09:21 PM
Safari 3.2
unknown Returning Visits:
Referring URL: 0
Valley Stream, New York, United States
Optimum Online (cablevision Systems) [Label IP Address]

Valley Stream NY is right outside of West Hempsted NY, where spookie says she lives. All information on the Johnny Agency website is for public view, including the names and phone numbers I got from it too. But personal information about me, which I choose NOT to make public is NOT LEGALLY allowed to be put online. So with that said, is spookie's real name Kim Hartwell? Or does this woman just know her? Or is spookie really a guy named John Fletcher? Or is she related to him? Or is she the snotty man who directs you to Fletcher when you first call this company? I don't know his name yet, but I will find out. There is another woman in this company I am compiling information about too. Whoever spookie is, she needs serious mental health help. I have never met anyone on internet who has gone around to everyone someone else knows and tries to get them to go against and hate that person. That is so immature and low class you would think spookie would be embarrassed. But maybe she is too high to be... spookie is the only one too, who has said boo to me about the people I have listed on my blog who harassed and abused me on my space for months. She has the biggest, loudest, most primadonna, attention whore mouth of any one of them, and is the most mean spirited person on the Internet. Period. But people who watched how things went down on my space know that spookie harrassed, picked on and made fun of me on animal forums when I never said anything to her. The poll on my blog is proof too, that the poem Lisa Marie wrote was there to provoke and hurt Adoptees and BSE Mothers. So again, after I criticized it, I was attacked ruthlessly by 30 people and then spookie joined on in. spookie also denies she started a blog or has written entry's to cut down BSE Mothers:


"What BSE means
by "Guess Who" Guest Blogger
BSE is the name for MAD COW DISEASE (bovine spongiform encephalopathy).
If ever there was a group of MAD COWS,
this is it!!
Big fat, mad, angry, dried up milk, COWS...with saggy drooping udders.
They're UDDERLY pissed off!
Bovine Spongiform Encephalopathy (BSE)
also Known as 'Mad Cow Disease'
Can you say MOOOO?"

But it is an interesting coincidence, that on spookies other blog "Catotonic Digressions" (and catotonic is right considering her bizarre behavior on the internet, which screams she is schizophrenic and possibly a user to boot)


she has a picture of a child that she claims is herself and right above this picture it says "Guess Who".
And that is EXACTLY the name of the poster who wrote the cruel What BSE Means post directly above. (And gee, now that I have pointed that out, since she is SO predictable, she will either delete the "Guess Who" heading, from her stupid blog that no one reads or ever comments on or she will go off on another rampage lying left and right and screaming oh, I have nothing to hide, oh, I didn't do anything, like the hysterical neurotic she is...) When I was getting bashed on that my space forum last year, someone had asked what does BSE mean anyway? since I had made post after post about how BSE Mothers were victimized, and someone, had said it sounds like Mad Cow Disease. I have that thread on a cd, along with all the proof that I was being beat like a pinata by these people and anything nasty I said, I said in return to getting ripped apart which is perfectly normal. What isn't normal however, is the horrific way spookie treats anyone who talks to me, and the temper tantrum she is having because I choose not to write back to her and because I tell the truth about her. And for that, she will be paying very soon....and again if she begins to harass or terrorize you, call the police in your area. Some people already have and the more legal complaints made against her, the less credibility she will have.

About Me (about HER, errm, her version, or shall we say, delusion. ha ha ha)

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The Improper Adoptee

I am the poster child for Adoptions Gone Wrong. I am living proof that Adoption does NOT work in the best interest of the child. I am an abused adoptee, a seeker of justice, a threat to oppressors, a lover of Natives, a defender to the handicapped, a gentle hand on your shoulder, a compassionate ear that listens, a bear hug when you need it, a dreamer, a liberal, a radical, a rebel, a vegetarian, a psychic, a mother, a cat lover, a bastard, a loner, a human being...

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What an evil, sick bitch. Maybe the surgery will go wrong. Oh, oops, she's not having a surgery or medical procedure...she's going to be in jail. I bet bucks on that.

I'm tired of having to deal with this lunatic who was obviously not supposed to be released from whatever institution let her walk out those doors years ago. Lock this cruel fucker back up, people. Why should regular, everyday people have to deal with this nosybody weirdo in their neighborhood, and now on the internet?

DO YOUR JOBS and get her off the streets and off the damn internet. SHE IS DANGEROUS TO OTHERS, and probably has abused herself and her only daughter. Wake the hell up, authorities who slipped up on this nutball. Who is the District Attorney for this nutball's area? Do they know this woman's name by heart? I bet.

Let us bloggers take our blogs back, and not have to keep our open blogs so boring all because some lunatic you let free is out there.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

PostSecret at St. John's University — Come hear the creator of the project speak!

PostSecret at St. John's University

Come hear the creator of the project speak!

Event Info
St. John's University
Time and Place
Thursday, March 19, 2009
7:00pm - 9:00pm
St. John's University
Queens, NY


"Hey Frank! What happens at a PostSecret Event?"

I share the inspirational and funny stories behind some of the quarter million secrets I have received on postcards. I project images of the secrets that were banned from the four PostSecret books. I talk about my secret - an experience I never spoke of for more than three decades and eventually drove me to start collecting secrets from strangers. And I always save time to answer questions and listen to the soulful, humorous and sometime sexual secrets from the audience.

"I did not know what to expect, but afterwards I was so glad I was able to get a ticket. There were times when I felt like I was laughing and crying at the same time. I will never forget some of the secrets my classmates shared. I came alone - but did not feel alone."


Event Schedule for Winter 2009

Penn State University, Altoona, PA

College of New Jersey, Ewing, NJ

George Washington University, DC
Lisner Auditorium

University of Manitoba, Winnipeg, Canada

Miami University, Oxford, OH

Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Indiana, PA

University of Alaska, Anchorage, AK

University of Illinois, Champaign, IL

Western Illinois University, Macomb, IL

University of Redlands, CA

University of New Mexico, Albuquerque, NM

SUNY Brockport, NY

Lesher Center for the Arts, Walnut Creek, CA

Bates College, Lewiston, ME

Amherst College, MA

Texas Tech, Lubbock, TX

St. John's University, Queens, NY

UNC, Charlotte, NC

Utah State University, Logan, UT

Sunday, January 11, 2009

My Online Stalker is a Bigoted Bully.

I am a little pea
I love the sky and the trees
I'm a teeny tiny little ant
Checking out this and that
I am nothing
So you have nothing to hide
And I'm a pacifist
So I can fuck your shit up
Oh yeah I'm small
Oh yeah I'm small

Fuck you asshole
You homophobic redneck dick
You're big and tough and macho
You can kick my ass
So fucking what
So fucking what
So fucking what
So fucking what

Insanities on the Internets!: Beware of Internet Stalkers. Sometimes, They Call.

Insanities on the Internets!: Copyright Infringement and Cyberbullying/Cyberharassment (Aggravated Assault)

Insanities on the Internets!: WOW, I Told People I Was Being Bullied, But This is SICK.

Insanities on the Internets!: The "Threatening" Letter IA Claims "Warns People to Stay Away From Her Blog"

Snow? Where? Snow Job.

Here's a photo of yesterday's huge snowstorm. I was so overwhelmed by the blizzard, I could hardly focus my camera.

You got it. Exactly. No big snow, no big deal.

If I can see the grass, the weather reporters cannot call it a snowstorm.

(NEWSDAY / ANA P. GUTIERREZ / January 10, 2009)

This almost looks like there was a snowstorm, but the beach front boardwalk always fools you. This image is of Long Beach, NY. I LOVE Long Beach, even in the winter.

(SABRINA DE SAMPAIO, NEWSDAY / February 22, 2008)

When we have a REAL snowstorm, you'll know about it. People upstate must laugh at us Long Islanders when they read about snow here. My friend in Canada gets buried under a few feet a week, and when he sees those storm warnings for the NY Metro area, we get a good laugh.

Well, here's to hoping we get at least one good snowfall that does actually measure over 6", because that would be fun.

Thursday, January 08, 2009

Rockin' to the Imagination Movers!

This is my son's latest, most favorite show, and it's on the Disney channel. For once, I can actually tolerate a daytime child's show without wanting to slam my head into a wall. This is a show for mom's who cannot even stand 5 seconds of Barney, and who feel they might need to throw the TV out if they see one more episode of most of what's on NOGGIN lately — and this is coming from a mom who used to like Noggin's programming! I liked The Upside Down Show, and 64 Zoo Lane is wonderful (though you need to DVR it or tape it since it's only on in the middle of the night, or rather, the pitch black morning), and I'll admit that at first I thought Little Bear was totally "faggy," but I like the show now that I've paid attention and gave it an honest chance, and like it even more when it's calm, kind stories put my son to sleep for nap time. But if I see some of the other shows one more time, I might need sedation. ;) Noggin shouldn't have put LazyTown on in the morning; my son hates it. He doesn't care for Franklin either. But Noggin putting Lazytown in the 10am slot made me have to find a show for my son's after breakfast lazy time, and that's how we found The Imagination Movers, so thank you, Noggin, for changing the line-up and making us change the channel!

You can go to Disney's website for the Movers if you want more info, check out the bios, see videos, hear songs from the show or just sit with your child in the Kids Only section.

You can also find The Imaginary Movers on MySpace —

MySpace URL: http://www.myspace.com/imaginarymovers


Feb 7 2009 10:30P     Alabama Theatre - Birmingham, AL Birmingham, Alabama
Feb 14 2009 1:00P     Count Basie Theatre - Red Bank, NJ Red Bank, New Jersey
Feb 15 2009 1:30P     Community Theatre at Mayo Center for the Performing Arts -        Morristown, NJ Morristown, New Jersey
Feb 16 2009 1:00P     Bergen Performing Arts Center - Englewood, NJ Englewood, New Jersey
Mar 7 2009 10:00A     Bass Performance Hall - Fort Worth/Dallas TX Fort Worth, Texas

Sounds Like (from their MySpace profile)

Red Hot Chili Peppers meet Captain Kangaroo Beastie Boys meet Mr. Rogers Compared to Barenaked Ladies, Devo, Sugar Ray, Dave Matthews, Dave Clark Five and even The Ramones mixed in too.
Record Label — WDR

Also from their Myspace profile:

About Imagination Movers

The Movers Rich, Scott, Dave and Smitty -- began in New Orleans in 2003 and now are fast-rising stars on the national kids music scene thanks to their combination of radio-friendly songs, kid-friendly themes and dynamic live shows.

Mover live shows are instant parties. "There's no guitar solos or fancy playing, but by trial and error, and by playing 250+ shows all over the country, we've figured out our identity and created the prototype for what we hope will be this big, multiple 18-wheeler arena rock concert for kids and parents. We basically want to take the Van Halen 1979 World Tour production values and do it for kids," sayeth Mover Rich.

So . . . catch the Movers on satellite radio as they are on heavy rotation on XM, Sirius and now - Radio Disney. On XM, they have launched five songs to the top of the charts, including the recent No. 1 hit "Farm." But they don't stop there - IM has cracked college radio charts at Emerson College, Drexel University, Rice University, Muhlenberg College and others. The Movers have even gone international: their music is played on digital radio throughout England and Canada; and Happy Rainbow in Beijing, China.

They've also won 14 national music awards and were named a Parenting Pick by Parenting Magazine, and won a John Lennon Songwriting Contest award for the song "Looking Out the Window." An ongoing tour of U.S. cities creates new Movers fans (affectionately known as Gearheads) in the wake of every show.

Movers audio and video encourages kids to reach high, think big, work hard and have fun! The Movers themselves are leading by example as they captivate new fans daily with their winning sound and style.