About My Blog.

Welcome! This is "Catatonic Digressions."
Most, if not all readers don't understand my blog's title. It's an old inside joke from a forum long gone. I was going to change it, but since it's been "confusing" for so long, I decided to leave it. Don't worry about what it means, the content of the blog is what is important.

Unfortunately, my blog isn't what I set out for it to be. A disturbed and manic online stalker and cyberbully has made it impossible for me to post about family, my son, life in my part of New York...so I stopped (for the most part), and I mostly reblog and repost what I feel is important, necessary or close to my heart. As for the stalking sociopath, she can go to hell for harassing me and my family since mid-2008. You can't scare me offline with a few lame threats and dozens of pages of defamation, abuse, depravity and libel. I'm bitchy like that. ;)
(Anyone who knows me knows I'm not actually a bitch, but let's allow this psychopath to think I'm a bitch to her blackened heart's content—it seems to make her feel she has some sort of control over me…and it does not.)

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Unlike those online who lie and hide behind fake photos and insanely fabricated stories, I'm a real person. I'm real and I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. After years of putting up with online abuse by manipulative, pathological liars, attention whores or narcissists, I've had it. Don't bother me with pathetic drama. I have no time for these types of people and their need to absorb others' time and attention.

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Monday, December 08, 2008

How Do You Get Rid of a Lunatic Online Stalker and Cyber-Bully Permanently?

I'd like to get rid of her without having to waste hours of my time filing paperwork and sitting in the precinct telling my story repeatedly. She's the stereotypical online stalker and cyber-harasser, bullying me by posting libel and defamatory blogs, comments and posts anyplace she can aside from her blog as well. She needs to be deleted from the net and society. She needs a reservation at her local spa and resport for the mentally ill.

Any suggestions are welcome! I already have quite a handful, but the more, the better. She leaves nut job comments on my blogs, and she used to harass me on MySpace. She just called one of my freelance contacts last week. He called me and asked who the "the lunatic" was that left a message on his answering machine. She's lost her marbles and doesn't know where to find them. She's already broken a telephony law. Since she is mentally ill, I don't think jail is the right place for her.

Again, suggestion, comments and any insight into stopping her abuse and getting her help, without putting her into jail.


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